Blogging vs life
Christopher Sessums has an interesting post stemming from a comic strip. It is Zits strip that is, at least right now, available here. (Like most comics, it won’t be available forever, so please forgive me if you look and it is gone!)
The comic has the son, Jeremy, interupting the father from telling the mother a story about his day. The son says,
I hate to see a person waste perfectly good blog material by describing his life experiences out loud.
Mr. Sessums has some interesting comments about the comic that are much more profound than anything I am going to say, so I advise you to read his post. I, on the other hand, have what is undoubtedly a much more mundane take on it.
What interests me about the comic is the idea of someone “wasting good blog material” by talking about it to a real live human being. This reminds me of something an acquaintace shared with me about her mother, who leaves family gatherings to journal about them. Do I want my written communication to replace face to face interaction with a human being? Or to take priority over it?
I love blogging. I love the conversation. But I wonder what I might be losing by blogging. Am I taking time from talking with my husband or with my friends to blog or to read blogs?
I guess I was thinking about this because of a post on a friend’s blog in which he talks about his life at this point. He says, in part
Start with the little things like finding/making/carving out the time I need to write/think. Or take my daily walks – which I miss dreadfully but which are pushed back so I have more time to do — what? Read blogs? Discard email spam? Patch computer programs? Fix stuff? Break stuff?
Heck, I haven’t watched a movie in a month or more! Last thing I saw was an episode of Battlestar Galactica from season one.
I guess I am in a strange frame of mind today. But I think I am becoming clear about the place of blogging in my life. It is important. But it is not my life. I am not going to save the best parts of my life, the funniest, saddest, most interesting parts for my blog.
That being said, I have to get back to looking through my Bloglines account.