I have been trying to figure out why I haven’t been able to post very often lately, and I think I have finally figured it out. The answer is so simple that I can’t believe it took me this long, but it did.
Having my job end has been a lot more traumatic for me than I realized at first. As my impending joblessness has gone on for almost 2 months now, I realize how lost I feel. I really feel like I am having to reinvent myself now because there aren’t many jobs in my field in places I want to live. So if I am not an ESL teacher, who am I?
Six years ago before I started in my present job, it was much simpler. I still had a child at home, so I was not as much defined by my job as I have become. Also, it has only been in the last ten years that I have really felt like I have a profession. Until then, I just went from job to job and had a good time.
Part of me wants to go back to those more carefree days, but I have really enjoyed the last ten years and feel I still have a lot to contribute to my students. I would like to continue in the field of ESL, but I am not sure how many sacrifices I am willing to make – or ask my husband to make – to do it.
All I know for sure is that I wake up each day a little less sure of who I am. On so many levels, I don’t like that! I’m not sure how I got to be so defined by my job. It leaves me wanting to get another job — almost any job — just to end the agony of not knowing. But then the cycle would just begin all over again. There is obviously more to this than finding another job. But right now, I would settle for that!